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Why Self Love should be the first love of every Individual


Many of us put others before self and at times this can bring great harm than profit. In Indian society, we see that marriage, especially for girls is emphasised greatly. I do not object to the institute of marriage but my question here is that is it necessary to do the job or reduce weight or remove specs for the sake of getting married. 

I write this because I have faced a similar situation. Though I am not married still I feel that a person should do anything and everything whether it is job, exercise or lens specs removal not for getting married but because of self-love. 

Self-love might be a new term to some and a familiar term to some. For those who do not know, self-love is the art of loving yourself before someone else loves you. Even if you exercise or work try to continue that even after marriage if the situation is favourable. 

The reason why I am telling you this is because you have reduced your body weight after doing a lot of exercise either in gym or through yoga and if the weight increases after marriage it is not a good sign. It shows that you have not done exercise for yourself but for someone else's sake. 

If you really want to keep your body in shape then take out time and do workout even after marriage because I feel that maybe your weight might not reduce with home yoga and exercise but it will definitely bring positive energy to your life and keep your energetic and active. 

It is good to love and care for someone but the first and foremost thing for every girl and in fact every individual should be self-love because nothing can be greater than loving and caring for yourself and your well being. 

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