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There was a time when everything was simple, sober and people used to be happy with whatever they had. However, as time passed things started changing drastically and today everybody wants more of everything and are ready to go to any lengths for it. For instance, if we look at the weddings of yesteryear and today a lot has changed. In yesteryears, everything used to be very simple including traditions and rituals. There was more fun element in those days than today. Today, everybody is just after looking their best even if they have to spend unlimited money for the same. It is saddening to see that we have started running so much after trends that we have forgotten the real meaning of things which actually matter. The run after the Western culture is so much that the Westerners are adopting our trend and we are adopting their trends.  I do not say what is wrong or right but in my opinion, one should do only what one is capable of and not extend their limits of doing anything as nobody

Bollywood has always been an inspiration for a few people. They follow celebrities blindly and try to do what they are doing. However, few stars have made humour out of the marriage and many people even follow that trend without giving it any second thoughts.  For example, when any favourite celebrity goes for a divorce many commoners who love that particular celeb follow the trend without giving it any second thought. Almost all actresses do not apply sindoor after marriage and many girls follow the trend of not doing the same.  It is okay for you to follow something positive when a celebrity is doing so otherwise, it is wrong to follow the wrong trends set by them because by doing so you are destroying your own life. 

There is nothing new about Bollywood making crappy remakes and people criticizing them. Whether it is films or songs these remakes have destroyed many beautiful pieces and films. Although there is no denying that some remakes are excellent but some of them are unwanted and very irritating. It is important to understand what can be copied and what can be left off. Everything need not be copied and destroyed as it finishes the beauty of the original and nothing substantial is left for the audience to listen. It is high time that Bollywood understands what needs to be copied and what needs to be left out. There is no point in creating something if the beauty of the original is destroyed. Although people get habituated to listening to crappy remakes this should be halted. 

Food wastage during the marriage is becoming common these days. Although it is a common problem that one should waste food but marriage is an occasion where a lot of food is wasted. More than in olden times, wastage has increased to a great level today. This is because there is a starter course before the main course and so many food options are available that everybody wants to have everything which leads to a lot of food being thrown away like that. Both guests and hosts need to limit the number of items on their plates.  Everyone needs to understand that the food they eat in marriage is from the hard-earned money of a girl's father so this should not be wasted.

If we look at the relationships of olden times whatever it is there were little or no ego clashes between them. However, if we look at modern relationships, the gaps between people have significantly increased, leading to many problems.  Today nobody wants to say sorry or become quiet in case of an argument. Everything takes a gruesome turn leading to house wreckage. A lot of things have changed but today impatience has reached its height.  Nobody wants to reach a compromise and everybody wants to prove themselves right. You might be right but you need to understand that there at that point it is better to be quiet. Let the other person think and analyze where they are wrong and what needs to be improved.  Thus, destroying a relationship due to ego is not justified and one should not take anything in granted. 

Recently, Ira Khan, daughter of Aamir Khan got engaged to her boyfriend Nupur Shikahre and Aamir Khan was criticised for this move. He was called a traitor as his daughter got engaged to a Hindu. Nobody realized that Khan himself had two Hindu wives.  Muslims have always had a no-tolerance policy when their daughters get married to Hindus. However, when their boys do that they will never object. Recently, a Hindu girl was killed by her Mulsim boyfriend and chopped into pieces; not a single Muslim objected.  This is a high-end partiality from Muslims. If you do not want your girls to get married to a Hindu then you should not allow your boys to marry a Hindu. This is something which cannot and should not be tolerated.  However, blaming the Government entirely for this is also not correct. Still, I believe that the government should make some norms for Muslims to stop exploiting Hindus for their personal and religious benefits.